Questions people shouldn't ask ...

I have been thinking about this a lot and figured I'd just throw this out there. There are some brave people in the world and by brave I mean ignorant and by ignorant I mean people who don't have filters from their brain to mouth. There are different levels of " brave" people and most I can tolerate. I typically don't respond with my first answer, which of course means I, do have control of my filter.  Here are some of the questions that I have been asked.. And I am sure many others have at least heard a few of them



Q: Is this your first child <--- not a bad question normally, it's the second question as a response.

"No, this is my (insert child number mine happens to be 5) 5th" They look at you like you're a ghost and then, ask another yet even more stupid question or two.

Q Wow! 5, how do you do it? Are they all yours? Are they all from the same father?

A: I do it just like any other mother since the beginning of time, Yes they are ALL mine and YES they are from the same father. Why does it matter, who cares or what's it to you??

Q: Are you going to get your tubes tied??  This seems to be a general question that I got since pregnancy three..

A: No, I am not. Since when did you get permission to control my ability to procreate?


Non pregnancy question but, this one hurts...

Q: Are you pregnant?
A: No
Q: Are you having twins?
A: I just freaking told you I wasn't pregnant, how can I be having twins?


Yes, I am a large girl but it's not because I eat.. It's actually because I don't eat. I have PCOS but because of society, I have it in my brain that food is bad, and everything I eat is bad for me, so I barely eat. But fools don't see that. ANYWAY my point is, stop asking stupid questions, especially if you don't know the person.  I am sure there are a lot more and I may add more over time. I just wanted to get this blog out.

Amie